Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. – I John 4:7
Some years ago, my little granddaughter and I were on our way to get our allergy shots, and as often happens in the car, we had a “teachable moment.”
“Nana, did God know when He made people that we were gonna sin?” she asked. It was one of those questions of hers that seem to come out of thin air.
“Yes, sweetie, I believe He did. There was a pause as she considered this.
“Did He know Jesus was gonna have to die to save us?”
“That was the plan, yes.” Another pause.
“Then why did He create us?!” she asked, baffled.
How do you answer that, other than, “Because He loves us so much!”?
Recently one of my Facebook friends posted a picture of her newborn daughter, who, of course, was adorable. She posted that in one day her whole attitude toward life and the world was changed. Her perspective had shifted instantly from self to someone else – a helpless little person who couldn’t do a thing for her, and yet who elicited a love in her that she hadn’t known existed before.
I remember that feeling well, of falling instantly in love with that tiny person who so far had done nothing but cause me pain, and yet —! I remember how the proverbial lightbulb had switched on, and how between feedings and diapers I had made an awkward attempt at expressing my epiphany. The result was a poem, which I tried to share with the church but ended up basically blubbering my way through.
The recent Facebook post jogged my memory, and I was surprised at how much of that poem I remember now, over four decades later. Even just now, as I’m writing, the gaps are being filled as the rest is coming back to me
Joanna Hello there, little stranger - so it was you all along! All these months you've waited to sing your birth-day song. I struggled for so many years, I tried so hard to learn To understand God's love for me, a love I couldn't earn. My sins - there were so many! My failures, far from few. I crucified Him daily with the things I'd say and do. "Oh God, how could You love me? There's nothing I can do, No gift to give, no work to do, that didn't come from You." And then one night, a miracle, a gift from God above, One wondrous summer evening, a child for us to love. She was so small and helpless, and yet she looked so fine! I loved her - not on merit, but just for being mine. Hello there, little stranger. I'm glad you helped me see. All these years I never knew how much He cared for me!
When God created us, He formed us in His image. He knew we’d blow it, but He placed in us a divine spark, and as sinful and selfish as we are, there are those moments – like falling in love with your baby – when that seed of pure love makes itself known. Any parent who has experienced that surge of divine love – that agape – has been given a glimpse of the divine that should inspire us to love and serve the One who created us. After all,
“We love because He first loved us.” (I John 4:19)
Prayer: Heavenly Father, even as we quote the Scripture, “God is love,” we may never in this life fully fathom the depths of that love. – We can’t, because Your love is infinite. All we can do is stand in awe of You and offer our eternal gratitude to You for creating us to be Your beloved children. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
I realize this post is too late for Mother’s Day, or even Father’s Day. And it’s way too early for Christmas, but I want to share a song with you that has touched me deeply, especially in light of my granddaughter’s question. And even though it’s from a Christmas album (my all-time favorite – “Rose of Bethlehem,” by Selah), its relevance is timeless. Listen, meditate on the words, and be in awe of the God who loves you that much.